FUTURE HUSBAND

SO I KNOW THAT THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP BUT THERE ARE JUST A FEW THINGS THAT I WANT/EXPECT OUT OF A FUTURE HUSBAND:
1. I WANT TO KNOW THAT WE CAN TRUST ONE ANOTHER
2. I WANT US TO BE OPEN AND HONEST WITH ONE ANOTHER
3. I WANT OUR RELATIONSHIP TO BE FOR GOD...SO I WANT TO SPEND TIME PRAYING, READING THE BIBLE, AND JUST TALKING ABOUT GOD WITH HIM
4. I WANT TO SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HIM....JUST TALKING AND GETTING TO KNOW HIM
5. I WANT US TO BE ON THE SAME PAGE WHEN IT COMES TO PARENTING AND HOW WE ARE GOING TO MANAGE OUR HOUSE AND MONEY
6.  I WANT TO SERVE THE COMMUNITY WITH HIM
7. I WANT HIM TO BE WILLING AND WANTING TO GO TO CHURCH WITH ME
8. I WANT HIM TO LOVE ME FOR ME AND ALL THE STUPID THINGS I DO
9. I WANT TO BE ABLE TO ACT SILLY AND STUPID AROUND HIM AT TIMES
10. MOST IMPORTANTLY I WANT US TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS FOR GOD AND IS LOVING

BOUNDARIES......TO BE HONEST I HAVE HAD BE CONSISTENTLY THINKING ABOUT MY BOUNDARIES FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT NOW....WHAT THEY ARE....WHAT THEY SHOULD BE....WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN.....IF I HAVE EVER COMPROMISED MY BOUNDARIES FOR SOMEONE ELSE.....I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I WILL....NO LONGER SIT ON ANYONE ELSE'S LAP OTHER THAN THE PERSON I AM WITH.....THAT I WILL NOT ALLOW MYSELF OR MY PARTNER TO KISS IN FRONT OF OTHERS (UNLESS WE ARE GETTING ENGAGED OR IT IS OUR WEDDING OF COURSE)......THAT WHEN I AM AT CHURCH IT IS TIME FOR ME AND GOD...NOT TIME FOR "RELATIONSHIP TIME"-OTHER THAN BUILDING FRIENDSHIPS WITH OTHERS BY SHOWING AND DISCUSSING WHAT GOD IS DOING IN OUR LIFE....I WILL NOT PUT MYSELF IN A SITUATION THAT COULD BE HARMFUL TO ME OR OTHERS....SO I WILL ONLY GO OUT WITH ANOTHER MALE THAT I AM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH UNLESS I HAVE OTHER PEOPLE TO GO WITH ME AND HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE....I WILL ONLY BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN INDIVIDUAL THAT WANTS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT TO RISK MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IN ORDER TO BE IN A REALTIONSHIP WITH A GUY...I WILL NEVER SMOKE...THE ONLY TIME I WILL CONSIDER DRINKING WOULD BE AT MY WEDDING (AND THEN MAYBE 1 GLASS OF RED WINE A MONTH BECAUSE IT IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEART...BUT THAT WOULD BE MY ONLY REASON AND I REALLY DO NOT WANT TO DRINK ANY ALCOHOL)...I AM STILL IN THE PROCESS OF THINKING OF MY BOUNDARIES AND WILL BE ADDING ON TO THEM BUT TO START SOMEWHERE IS GOOD