BOUNDARIES......TO BE HONEST I HAVE HAD BE CONSISTENTLY THINKING ABOUT MY BOUNDARIES FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT NOW....WHAT THEY ARE....WHAT THEY SHOULD BE....WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN.....IF I HAVE EVER COMPROMISED MY BOUNDARIES FOR SOMEONE ELSE.....I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I WILL....NO LONGER SIT ON ANYONE ELSE'S LAP OTHER THAN THE PERSON I AM WITH.....THAT I WILL NOT ALLOW MYSELF OR MY PARTNER TO KISS IN FRONT OF OTHERS (UNLESS WE ARE GETTING ENGAGED OR IT IS OUR WEDDING OF COURSE)......THAT WHEN I AM AT CHURCH IT IS TIME FOR ME AND GOD...NOT TIME FOR "RELATIONSHIP TIME"-OTHER THAN BUILDING FRIENDSHIPS WITH OTHERS BY SHOWING AND DISCUSSING WHAT GOD IS DOING IN OUR LIFE....I WILL NOT PUT MYSELF IN A SITUATION THAT COULD BE HARMFUL TO ME OR OTHERS....SO I WILL ONLY GO OUT WITH ANOTHER MALE THAT I AM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH UNLESS I HAVE OTHER PEOPLE TO GO WITH ME AND HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE....I WILL ONLY BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN INDIVIDUAL THAT WANTS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT TO RISK MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IN ORDER TO BE IN A REALTIONSHIP WITH A GUY...I WILL NEVER SMOKE...THE ONLY TIME I WILL CONSIDER DRINKING WOULD BE AT MY WEDDING (AND THEN MAYBE 1 GLASS OF RED WINE A MONTH BECAUSE IT IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEART...BUT THAT WOULD BE MY ONLY REASON AND I REALLY DO NOT WANT TO DRINK ANY ALCOHOL)...I AM STILL IN THE PROCESS OF THINKING OF MY BOUNDARIES AND WILL BE ADDING ON TO THEM BUT TO START SOMEWHERE IS GOOD