BOUNDARIES......TO BE HONEST I HAVE HAD BE CONSISTENTLY THINKING ABOUT MY BOUNDARIES FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS STRAIGHT NOW....WHAT THEY ARE....WHAT THEY SHOULD BE....WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN.....IF I HAVE EVER COMPROMISED MY BOUNDARIES FOR SOMEONE ELSE.....I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I WILL....NO LONGER SIT ON ANYONE ELSE'S LAP OTHER THAN THE PERSON I AM WITH.....THAT I WILL NOT ALLOW MYSELF OR MY PARTNER TO KISS IN FRONT OF OTHERS (UNLESS WE ARE GETTING ENGAGED OR IT IS OUR WEDDING OF COURSE)......THAT WHEN I AM AT CHURCH IT IS TIME FOR ME AND GOD...NOT TIME FOR "RELATIONSHIP TIME"-OTHER THAN BUILDING FRIENDSHIPS WITH OTHERS BY SHOWING AND DISCUSSING WHAT GOD IS DOING IN OUR LIFE....I WILL NOT PUT MYSELF IN A SITUATION THAT COULD BE HARMFUL TO ME OR OTHERS....SO I WILL ONLY GO OUT WITH ANOTHER MALE THAT I AM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH UNLESS I HAVE OTHER PEOPLE TO GO WITH ME AND HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE....I WILL ONLY BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN INDIVIDUAL THAT WANTS TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT TO RISK MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IN ORDER TO BE IN A REALTIONSHIP WITH A GUY...I WILL NEVER SMOKE...THE ONLY TIME I WILL CONSIDER DRINKING WOULD BE AT MY WEDDING (AND THEN MAYBE 1 GLASS OF RED WINE A MONTH BECAUSE IT IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEART...BUT THAT WOULD BE MY ONLY REASON AND I REALLY DO NOT WANT TO DRINK ANY ALCOHOL)...I AM STILL IN THE PROCESS OF THINKING OF MY BOUNDARIES AND WILL BE ADDING ON TO THEM BUT TO START SOMEWHERE IS GOOD

I TRULY HAVE THE BESTFRIEND AND BOYFRIEND EVER.  
I AM SO LUCKY TO HAVE SOMEONE LIKE DUKE IN 
MY LIFE THAT HOLDS ME ACCOUNTABLE AND VALUES
HAVING GOD IN OUR RELATIONSHIP.  I WOULDNT WANT 
TO BE WITH ANYONE BUT HIM.  HE MAKES ME VERY HAPPY
ESPECIALLY WHEN I AM HAVING A HARD DAY.  HE IS
ALWAYS THERE FOR ME.  HE HAS HELPED ME IN MY
RELATIONSHIP WITH MY HEAVENLY FATHER.  
HE LISTENS TO ME, AND ALLOWS ME TO BE MYSELF.  
I LOVE THAT I CAN TRUST HIM AND TELL HIM ANYTHING. 

Haiti

I am going to Haiti June 11th: which is Raymond's birthday.  I am excited but I have no idea what is in store for me or what I will experience; but I cannot wait to go. 

my pre-k room
after i changed some things up :)

 i love my bestfriends!

I don’t want a perfect relationship. I just want someone who I can act myself with, someone who treats me right and loves being with me. Most importantly I want to be with a man that I can trust and have a godly relationship with.   

Word

My word for this year is: ACTIVE

the reason i choose this word is because i have a hard time being active in conversations, i am sometimes absent in my realtionships, and i have not been that active in my prayer life or my journey with God so i thought it would be a good way to help me focus more in those areas i am also going to work on being more active physically so that i can honor my body the way that God wants me to.